Category Archives: Blog

Leaving A Church Community

The purpose of this post is help believers who were once part of a church, but have never reconnected with a Christian community. Is it possible that they haven’t reconnected with a new Christian community because they haven’t fully left their former church? My hope is that by sharing about my own pain I can […]

Internet Safety… Reimagined!

Parenting in the 21st century is challenging. One of the biggest challenges parents face is internet safety. I have a 17-month-old girl, Andi, she already knows how to “talk” to Siri and navigate through her educational apps on our family iPad. Take a second to think about your KidMin…

Four Boundary Problems

Boundary problems can be summed up in two words: Yes and No. I have two grandkids. My grandson, James is four and my granddaughter, Andi is 16 months. James is more compliant and Andi is more of a controller. The other day James was holding his toothbrush and Andi wanted it. It was clear that […]

To Trick or Treat? – Or Not?

  It’s that time of year when Christian parents are compelled to make a decision. Do I let my kids go trick or treating on October 31? Many believers see Halloween as the devil’s holiday. Others see it as a fun community event. My advice is that you follow your own convictions. Do what you […]

The Best Way To Get Your Leaders To Grow

Most Kid Ministry Pastors say that their biggest need is for more volunteers, but this may not be the case. It’s possible that your biggest need is for your current volunteers to step up and become leaders. The truth is that if you get more leaders then the volunteers will follow. What is the absolute […]

Should We Teach Kids About Speaking in Tongues?

Should we Teach Kids About Speaking In Tongues? That depends. If your church does not believe in speaking in tongues then you should not teach the kids in your class about it even if you do speak in tongues. I think most of us understand why this would create problems. What I do not understand […]

Teaching Kids To Make Wise Choices

We have all heard the following statement. ‘Your life is a product of the choices you make.’ If this is a true statement, then possibly the most important thing we can teach children is how to make wise choices. It is my observation that as Christian parents we spend too much time teaching children to […]

Helping Kids Deal With Fear

Fear is a powerful force that we all have to deal with. As a parent, it is especially challenging when we see our children struggling with fear. We want to push an “easy button” and turn off the fear however, we can’t control our child’s thoughts, so we can’t control their fears. We have to […]

Be Proactive

When I first started in kid’s ministry I saw myself as a victim. I loved the kids, but I felt like my ministry was totally at the mercy of other people. I played the blame game a lot. Things would get better if: parents placed a higher value on their children. more people would step […]

We’ve All Been There…

Face it… We have all been where this kid is in the picture above, so scared we look like a cardboard cutout at Target. As a children’s pastor I wanted to make sure my kids knew they didn’t have to be afraid or full of fear. That’s why I wrote the series “Fear”. I wanted […]